2010年4月15日木曜日

Cause and Effect Essay: Causes of the Child Abuse

Child Abuse indicates that a custodian is doing physical abuse, sexual abuse, reglecting ( the child care abandoument, the custody abandonment ) and phychological abuse. Nowadays, child abuse is increasing as one of own social problems. The purpose of this essay is to classify the causes and effects about Child Abuse.

First is parent's apiritual condition. It is from stress due to all of the anxieties and problems, that parents have to develop because they are not capable enough to raise a child. They feel jealousy and hatred for an un wanted son/daughter.
Second, parents may have also undergone the handship about the child abuse because they experienced the same thing. When the person becomes a parent, he/she would remember the memories which he/she went through when he/she was still akid. For example, the person beats his/her child. They are unconscious of their bad behavior, and they think that it is the right or best thing to do because ofhis/her experiences. It is very scary. He/She can not control his/her own stress and unforgettable expriences of his/her childhood. And when he/she gets upset, he/she hurts the people around him/her for giving in to their own ager. The child abuse happens in such a situation. And when the child grows up and becomes a parent, he/she also will abuse his/her own child. There is not an end unless we cut this chain off somewhere. There fore, the cooperation and the help of the partner is necessary. There are many cases in which there are no clear understanding about the dos' and do not in having a child. It is also the reason why child abuse happens. When your feelings were not controlled by yourself, it is a must that the partner will help the cildren.

I think that it should not be accepted by the partner or anyone else. Because in that case, he/she will be freed from their pain for the first time. And I think that he/she can do it again. This problem can happen even with the possibility of being low of love. As a precaution, people who abuse children needs to meet a partner who understands proper child care. I think we should reflect and consult with our partners or friends about how we raise a child by ourselves before we decide to have one of ourselves. Do not forget the emotion you feel when a child was born. I think that the actions that the adult should take must not contact in a groundless manner on adult's own authority. I think that it is important to calm oneself and consult with somebody before being driven into a corner to abuse.

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